Our Week in Numbers

Casey just got back from a week-long business trip.

Six

• How many days we've survived without our favorite guy--Daddy, Sweetie, Babe, Dada, Honey. . .


• Days I've let the girls watch some television or a movie

Five

• loads of laundry


• visitors we've had
  

Four

• "outings" away from home


• How many of us have had fevers


• posts I've worked on/published

Three

• times the girls were put to bed before 7
• wardrobe winter-to-spring changeouts
  
• girls miss their daddy

Two

• times I've turned on the oven


• times I've run the dishwasher


• mowed lawns (surprise, honey!)


• times I've made the bed (this is actually pretty good for me:)


• times we ate out

One

• wife misses her hubby


• time I've turned on the stove
  
• toddler blowout hosed off in the backyard
  
• hour-long bath for Mommy
  
• baby blood-draw (all is well)


• times I've cried

Zero

• nights I went to bed before midnight (sorry, Babe. I'm lost without you!)


• times I was in P.J.s all day (this one was between zero and half)


• trips we took to the grocery store, and consequently,


• how much milk, bread, etc. is in our home as I write this

Too Many

• times I wondered how we would make it through the entire week (especially those first few days)


• times our day's plans have had to be re-worked (i.e. the number of activities we planned to do that we actually did amounts to a whopping one)
  
• cups of coffee

One Month Till One

I don't mean to start out every milestone post with the phrase, "it's hard to believe," but it's hard not to say that. Haley is eleven months old today. I cannot quite grasp that she will be a year in another month. I only have a few minutes, so pictures will make the majority of this post.
One of Haley's favorite hangouts--the laundry room. She gets to play with shoes and watch clothes spin. What more could a baby want? She'll spend tens of minutes there (this is a lot for Haley).

Haley signs "more." She started doing this a few weeks ago by clapping, but has since learned the correct way to sign it. Today, when she watched this video, she began signing it again, over and over (hearing us on the video say, "Can you say "more," Haley?")

Ruby tried her hand at feeding Haley for the first time the other day. It was a very exciting milestone for Ruby. She's been looking forward to the privilege for months. Notice Ruby's open mouth, too!

Every time I've turned on Haley's aquarium lately, the volume is on full-blast. I kept wondering why and how the older girls could turn it up so often. The other day I walked in and saw this. I didn't realize she could reach it, or knew what the buttons and dials did. She does love pushing buttons. . .

Speaking of which, she has been pushing our buttons lately. Seriously, this girl can yell. Some of you know that sound that Claire has been known to make (loud, irritated, grunt-like squealing). Well, Haley's now the proud owner of that sound (thankfully, Claire rarely makes it nowadays).

I don't know if it is teething or what, but Haley has had a total personality makover since about 8-9 months. And not in a good way. Don't let these pictures fool you. She is an angry baby, and whines and cries to be held (usually following me around the kitchen, pulling up on my legs, screaming if I get away from her or put her down). Where has my contented baby gone, and when will I get her back? I don't know how much longer I can handle this tremendous neediness!

The below picture in no way shows how this plays out. She's happy here. Don't know how it ended here, but my guess is that after I took this picture, I either picked her up, or she screamed as I tried to move around without picking her up.

Haley is also the first of our babies to be a "Mama's girl" or go through a clingy, "I-don't-go-to-others" stage. Having experienced this for the last couple months, I am so grateful we haven't dealt with it with the other girls. Wow. It's sweet sometimes, but mostly stressful and restricting.

Another of Haley's favorite places: the girls' playroom (a closet under the stairs). She'll often join them in there, but lately has retreated there on her own, too. Here she is, cooking up something great.

Playing coy with her daddy.

Sweet girl. We love you bunches. Even when you drive us mad.

Saving Money: What I *Am* Willing to Do

While deciding whether or not to continue with the couponing course I'd signed up for, I started to make a list in my head of the things I already do to save money. Not that I am the queen of frugality, by any means (that title belongs unequivocally to my mother), but there are some things that are already in place in my grocery shopping that I think may do me better to focus and improve on than couponing will (and thanks for the vote of confidence, Kar!).

1. I try to grocery shop no more than once a week, and my often-met goal is to make it ten days to two weeks between trips. Sometimes this means that toward the end, we eat a strange dinner like egg burritos, carrot sticks and pear slices, but that's okay. I also have a little rule for myself about going to Costco only once a month. My motivation is bolstered by the fact that at least 3/4ths of the time, I take all three children grocery shopping with me--not something I want to do more often than once a week! (Oh, and in case you were wondering, I push one cart-full of groceries while pulling another cart-full of kids. We are a spectacle, yes.)




2. In the past (it has seriously fallen by the wayside since Haley was born) I would A) shop the grocery store ads and B) stock up on items that were a great deal and C) buy only what was on sale that week. Three years ago, when we just had one child, our grocery/household bill was around $200 a month ($100 at Costco and $25 a week at the grocery store). Since I try to make it longer between trips nowadays, and since I am doing great just to have a list ready of the things we need when I have a good window of time to shop, I will usually only glance through the ad and while in the store, keep my eye out for items we use that are on a good sale, then stock up on them (meat, poultry, pasta, canned goods, baking ingredients, paper goods and others like foil, plastic wrap . . . see my hoarding tendency below).
My "pantry" this past winter Just for the sake of being real (in case it appears that I am neat and organized), I thought I should post this picture, too. It was taken last week and shows how things often look around here.

1. With few exceptions, I make our meals from scratch. (Not-from-scratch things we use on a monthly--or more often--occurence include tortillas, spaghetti sauce, boxed macaroni and cheese, yeast breads and pancake mix.) We rarely eat prepared meals (though this was not the case for the first four months of Haley's life). It was amusing to hear last week that according to my friend, I even make our salads from scratch--buying the lettuce head and the whole carrots, tomatoes, etc. and preparing it myself! This is how I grew up, so I had no idea that many people do not "make" salads. Let me just say salads are extremely affordable this way. On less than $5 a week, I can make 4 decent side salads three times a week (like the ones below). And that's getting the expensive tomatoes (on the vine) and lettuce (green leaf or romaine).


2. Just a couple random other things I thought of:

• I pack Casey's lunches most days (usually last night's leftovers--not something I was doing much after #3 was born, but as of February, I've become pretty faithful again)


• we keep dining out as a family to about once or twice a week (Admitting that is embarrassing, but we spend less than $20--usually less than $15--each time. Does that makes it not sound as bad?).


• Since the girls and I are home virtually all the time (Church and dance class are the exceptions), we save $ on gas since I don't drive our Pilot much, and because I rarely do other shopping besides the grocery kind, we save $ on other things (there is an exception here, too, and it's not good: Wal-Mart. It is really easy for me to spend a lot there.)


• I also feed my 10-month-old baby table food as much as possible by keeping our mini food chopper ready and near. (I gave up making actual baby food after I had a second baby. Go figure.) And the baby food I buy is carefully selected as well (I buy jars or single servings of unsweetened applesauce instead of "baby applesauce," real bananas instead of jarred ones, quarts of plain whole milk yogurt instead of "Yo-baby," or whatever that insanely expensive stuff is, and boxes of Cherrios on sale instead of melt-in-your mouth sugary Gerber puffs.)

That's all I can think of at the moment regarding grocery-type savings. Now that I've chucked the idea of couponing, I believe I'll try to focus on shopping the ads, stocking up and being more purposeful about what I put in the cart when I find myself at Wal-Mart. Hmmm. . . perhaps that's my problem . . . maybe I shouldn't find myself at Wal-Mart.

What about you? What are your family's money-saving habits?